Monday, October 31, 2011

Round 3!

Today we made our third trip to the pumpkin patch.  We went back to Joan's Farm in Livermore, our family tradition for some good family time.  We've been going there for 3 years (Riley's first year; Riley's second year) so we have to get our yearly photos in before they close for the season on Monday, plus we had a $5 off coupon for a pumpkin and we needed our "big" pumpkin.  Riley LOVES the pumpkin patch, we stopped at Target on the way there and on the way back to the car she started singing a song she made up "I'm going to the pumpkin patch, I'm going to the pumpkin patch."  It was pretty funny.  When we got there she was all over it like stink on poop!  She hopped in the wagon and got out when we reached the huge pumpkins and was determined to find the perfect "big" pumpkin.  After our pumpkin was carefully selected we headed over to the pony rides of course!  I had no idea Joan's even had pony  rides but we lucked out and got on the last ride of the day before the pony's headed into the stable.  And Riley rode her pony all by herself for the very first time, with complete confidence and no hesitation about us being outside the fence.  {Sniff, sniff, my little girl is all growsed up!}  After the pony ride we headed up to the choo choo train where once again she showed no hesitation about riding it all by herself!  She told us in the car on the way there that we couldn't go on the choo choo train with her (she rode this train with all of her friends at the beginning of the month) but that we could watch her.  I thought she was talking big again and would chicken out and want us (by us, I mean Marc) to somehow try and ride with her but she took her ticket, ran to the train, picked the very last car and handed her ticket to the "engineer."  She turned around a few times to see if we were there and to wave but other than that she was perfectly happy steering her car's wheel and enjoying the ride.  I took like 96 pictures at the pumpkin patch, it's hard to believe that next year Ri's baby brother will be with us, here are our best pics from today!

Tradition on Daddy's shoulders

Seriously, how is my almost 3 year old not 3' yet!?!  But she is finally in (mostly) 2T clothes!

Daddy's little buddy

Daddy had to give her a boost so that she could reach the opening!


If only she would pose this nicely for her chair picture each month!

Happy as a clam riding Lightning the Pony.  She was even brave enough to pet him after the ride was over and thanked him for giving her a ride

Coming into the "train station" after her ride

One happy little girl!

Heading to the car!

One last photo op!

Sunday, October 30, 2011

Harvest Festival

Friday was a super busy day for us with Dr appointments but fortunately Riley's Harvest Festival at school happened to be on Friday also so Marc was already working from home and able to join us for the festivities.  Riley was SO excited to wear her costume and go to the "birthday party" at school.  She was a little weary of all of the costumes and was afraid of the Associate Director (whom she normally loves and does dance with) because she was dressed as a witch but after a while she warmed up, especially when she saw her friends, James, Joey, Trevor and Bella there.  And what is Riley for Halloween this year you ask???  Well we graduated from bugs (lady bug her first year and a bumble bee last year) and we went with an OWL of course!  Riley actually wanted to be a princess but Mommy needed one more year of influence and I negotiated her into an owl costume because it is stinking adorable.  Of course I had to give up my rights to her birthday party but it's so worth it because she's a stinking adorable owl!

Family photo, look Marc and I coordinated with our stripes! :)

Who's ready for Halloween???  This girl is!

Saturday, October 29, 2011

My Girly Girl

Riley's day care has a lady come in every week to teach dance.  We decided to enroll Riley and have her do dance on Thursday mornings at school with her friends rather than trying to go to another scheduled activity on the weekend.  Riley couldn't be more thrilled to be enrolled in dance!  Last week she missed class because she was sick and it was a huge, fat temper tantrum!  This week found her healthy and little miss was so excited she could barely contain herself, especially since her new tap shoes arrived Wednesday night.  So Thursday she got to wear her dance outfit and it was by far the easiest drop off in history!  No tears, no long goodbyes, no begging for me to stay.  Just "Bye mom, have fun today!"

Friday, October 28, 2011

Karma?

What's my karma for having a 4lb 14oz baby the first time around?  A big boy that at 30 weeks already weighs in at 3lbs 13oz, just a pound less than Riley was when she was born at 36 weeks!  BIG FAT OY!  We had our 30 week ultrasound today and all looks good.  The ultrasound tech kept saying "Oh, you have a good sized baby in there."  He was seriously freaking me out.  We finally asked what that means, he said "Above average."  Above average indeed, this kid is 62nd percentile and is measuring over a week bigger than his gestational age!   We asked and "average" is 6.5-7.5 lbs, they're thinking like 8 lbs for him!  Can I order my epidural now? 

But in all seriousness, it all looks good in there, I was getting worried because I wasn't feeling as much movement, just twists and twitches in the last week but my OB said that was probably because he was running out of room and sure enough, he's doing just great in there, amniotic fluids are good around him, he's growing quite nicely, and mommy only gained a pound this month.  And yes, he's still a boy, 100% confirmation on that front! :)  Oh and he's cute as a button, he had both hands in front of his face for most of the ultrasound but we got a few cute shots of the little, er, big guy! 


Monday, October 24, 2011

Life Saver

My mom (and dad) came into town this weekend for a visit and for my baby shower.  She asked what she could do to help me out.  I told her it's getting really hard to get dinner on the table and I'm too tired to cook at the end of the work day so I requested some of her brisket (it's the best in the world) to freeze and take out for dinners.  Well not only did she make me brisket but she also made a beef stew, a chicken dinner, and some pasta sauce for us to freeze and take out, I think I got like 8 meals out of the deal.  A total life saver!

All of those zip lock bags full of food are dinners that I just have to heat up, yippee!

Sunday, October 23, 2011

A Sprinkle of Love

My wonderful friend Lori threw us a sprinkle to help us bring some blue into our lives today.  It was a fantastic day with yummy food (with lots of leftovers so Marc was happy), great friends, and lots of fun!  She held it at a Chinese restaurant, yum, my favorite and had lots of fun games!  Riley even came at the end to help me open her brother's presents.  Riley was really excited to finally wear one of her new " Big Sister" shirts (I've been crazy superstitious and haven't let her wear one yet but I figured it would be fun for the shower).  She was so excited to help me open presents and every time she opened one she would hold it up and show everyone and say "This is for my baby brother!"  (A step in the right direction since she called him her baby brother and not baby sister!).  She also did a great job of knowing that the gifts were for him and not her and did not try to take any of them, though she did have her eye on the awesome owl blanket from Lori (picture below).  I was very proud of her, I think she's going to be a great big sister and I can't wait to see her in action.  Friday she told me that her baby brother was her "fwiend!"  Got to love that girl!

"What Brothers do Best," the other side says "What sisters do best"

Riley hanging with Bella's mommy
Owl toy!  Thanks Auntie Amber! :)

And an owl blanket compliments of Lori - this is the one gift that Riley coveted

Me and the hostess.  Thanks for the wonderful afternoon Lori!

Me and my girl

My little helper!

Group shot!

Riley and "Auntie" Lori

The soon-to-be Big Sister arrives just in time for cake and presents, her favorite!

My almost 30 week baby bump and my side-kick

Getting my belly measured for our first game, "Guess how big Allie's belly is."  Marc's answer - HUGE!

Searching for safety pins in a bowl of rice, it's surprisingly hard!

Monday, October 17, 2011

3 More Months...

until her 3rd birthday!  I truly can't believe how big of a girl Riley is these days!  The things she says are hilarious and she seems to have matured in the last month so much.  So what's new, we're pretty much potty trained, we have had a few accidents every so often but for the most part she's potty trained during the day (still working on nights), she LOVES her big girl bed and transitioned to it without a hitch!  In fact she has slept better since going to the big girl bed than she has in crib for quite some time and we no longer hear her night night shoes clanking around.  Riley is also transitioning to Pre-School A and has recently started taking ballet and dance class at school on Thursdays which she loves!  And she's quite the little mommy to her "Ya-Yas!"  She has become so much more of a girly-girl and is into having her hair done and getting pampered.  The other day I was drying my hair and she went and got her princess hair dryer and brush and started doing her hair like I was. 

Some recent Riley-isms:

"Mom do you like that song?"

"Mommy, you my fwiend?"

"I tooted in my underwear!"

"I burpped in my mouf!"

"No way Jose!"

Me: "Riley, did you make a new friend in school this week?"
Riley: "Yes, Ishna"
Me:"Is is Ishna a boy or a girl?"
Riley: "Ishna is a vegetarian."
Ok, good talk!


Marc: "Riley, are you going to use your own monies for the pony rides?"
Riley: "I don't have any, we'll just use mommy's!"

And everything happens on "Friday."  As in: "Daddy, you have no hair, don't worry, it will come in on Fwiday."


Sunday, October 16, 2011

Fall Fun

What does one do when it's in the mid-80s in mid-October???  Seriously, the heat has been ridiculous and if it doesn't break soon, someone might get hurt!  Well you head to the Pumpkin Patch of course!  Riley's bestie, Bella invited us to the pumpkin patch with her and her parents out in Livermore, it was a different patch than we usually go to and it was a great time (despite this pregnant momma being very hot and uncomfortable).  They have way more to do at this particular patch than the one we usually go to including, a train, corn maze (which we skipped), a petting zoo (which Riley was afraid of), a straw bale maze (which we also skipped), a playground (also skipped), pony rides (which we did twice), and of course PUMPKINS!  Riley and Bella had a ton of fun together and after spending a few hours there we all headed to dinner.  A super fun time!  The only draw back of this pumpkin patch versus the one we normally go to is that this one is right off of the freeway whereas the one we usually go to is inland some in the country so you definitely get more of a country feel but it was certainly a great time with great new friends!



On the cow train!

Bella on her pony "Marshmallow"

So serious about her pony ride

Finally smiling

My Squirty Spice, not even 3ft yet!

Round 2 of pony rides

Bella and Riley posing with their pumpkins

"I got a big one!"

Wednesday, October 12, 2011

First Date

Friday night we went to my friend's son's 7th birthday party.  7 year old boys are a rambunctious bunch and I am not quite sure we are fully prepare for what is in store for us, even Riley, who usually jumps right into social situations finally met her match and was quite intimidated by the herd of 7 year old boys running through the house. 

But then the night wore on and along came Andrew, my friend's 5 year old nephew.  He came up to Riley and asked her her name and then she asked him his name.  Then he asked her if she wanted to sit next to him during cake!!!  It was the cutest thing I've ever seen in my life.  So they sat through cake together and Andrew told Riley about how he just liked frosting and Riley said me too and then he asked what she was going to be for Halloween and she told him (but it's a surprise for all of you!) and he told her what he was going to dress up as.  Then he asked her if she wanted to sit next to him on the couch during the movie!  I was sitting there the whole time and I kind of felt like I was intruding on their first date!  It was totally adorable!  After cake it was present time and they sat next to each other on the couch and then what began as Andrew pursuing Riley turning into Riley taking Andrew by the hand and leading him to the couch!  And yes, Marc was observing the whole thing!!!  After the presents were open, Andrew and Riley went into the other room to play until it was time to go.  Of course Riley did not want to go but Daddy could not afford to lose any more hair!   Oh how my Riley is going to be T-R-O-U-B-L-E!!!

Sitting on the couch together

This one is blurry because they were on the move but this is Riley taking Andrew by the hand!

Playing while all of the other boys were in the other room

Tuesday, October 11, 2011

Just Because

We walked downstairs last night after putting Riley to bed and found her "Ya-Yas" lined up like this.  I asked Marc if he put them them like this and he said no and I didn't do it so that leaves Riley.

That's Ya-Ya, Small Ya-Ya, and Big Ya-Ya.  Yes, they all have the same name! :)

Monday, October 10, 2011

Big Girl Bed

Well we finally took the plunge and converted Riley to her big girl bed!  Our pediatrician had recommended waiting until Riley was 3 but that would bring us to Baby #2 being here and I was worried that she would associate her crib going away with him, even though we converted her crib to a toddler bed.  After talking to the day care director at Riley's day care who said Riley was more like 2 1/2 going on 5 and also that if we waited until after the baby would come we would have to wait a year because she would definitely associate her crib going away with him we decided to take the plunge this weekend.  I was fully prepared for battles and sleepless nights and braced myself fully.  Of course Riley kept us on our toes because not only did she sleep 2 1/2 hours her first nap in her bed, she went on to sleep 13 hours Saturday night (and let us sleep to 8AM which I desperately needed!) and then took an over 3 hour hour nap on Sunday with no fight about going to bed (knock on wood) on Sunday night.  We have a great new routine: potty, PJs, brush teeth in her room, then Riley picks out a story, climbs on her bed, and we put her night night shoes on while she's sitting on the bed.  Then we tuck her in "snug as a bug" and read her story, usually twice before good-night kisses.  Riley loves her new bedding and actually does not want to use her old baby blankets which shocked me.  She was more than happy to pose in her new big girl room!  We still have to move the rocking chair out to the baby's room and add some wall decals that I bought her but baby steps, between potty training and a big girl bed I don't want to shake up her life too much!

The proud big girl bed owner!

Her new owl picture!

Doggy and Teddy Bear wanted to be in the picture too! :)

Sunday, October 9, 2011

School Pictures

Riley was finally not afraid of getting her picture taken at school, we just got her fall school pictures back this week and they came out so cute (well except for her class picture where she looks like she's about to beat someone up!)!






This class picture is a HOT MESS!


Friday, October 7, 2011

Document It, Remember It

Ever have one of those days where you just wish you had a video recorder going at all times? Monday, was well, a typical Monday in every sense of the word. I was tired, I didn’t sleep well (hello 3rd trimester my old frienemy!) and I was running late, I couldn’t get my granny stocking on because my belly is getting too big to bend over (and yes it is, I’m measuring a week ahead of where it should be so as my Dr puts it “I’m nice and big”), and couldn’t decide what to wear. Riley was actually being cooperative other than insisting that she needed more cereal in her snack cup which was upstairs with us and the cereal was downstairs in the pantry (imagine that???) which didn't bode well for an impatient 2 year old.

We did have a couple of cute conversations in the morning and I just had to accept that I was going to hit major traffic because I couldn’t risk losing the precious interaction with her.

Conversation 1:
Me: “Riley it’s going to rain today.”
Riley: “Oh no, I need my rain jacket and boots.”
Me: “Well let’s get your rain jacket but you’re not supposed to wear boots at school so we can just bring our rain jacket.”
Riley: “I don’t want to get all wet.”

Now at this point in time it is currently clear with no sign of rain, the rain was predicted for late afternoon, early evening but Riley wanted to be prepared so we had to actually put the coat on her. Fast forward to the parking lot at day care.

Riley: “Mom, you don’t have your rain coat!” (Not sure when and how it happened but I am no "mom," my little girl is truly growing up"
Me: “I’ll be ok, don’t worry.”
Riley: “Mom, be careful, you don’t want to get wet!”

My girl, always looking out for me!

Conversation 2:

At day care in Pre-School A Classroom, after going back and forth between the computer, magnets and coloring Riley decides on coloring for her morning activity to keep her occupied while I sneak out.

Me: “Ok, Riley, I’m going to go to work now, be good today and remember to go potty on the toilet and stay dry.”
Riley: “Don’t go!”
Me: Thinking oh great, here we go, I’m already 15 minutes behind. “I really have to go baby.”
Riley: “I want to color you a picture.”

Stab right to the heart, how can you rush that???   But I was seriously late and traffic was only getting worse!

Me: “Why don’t you color it and put it in your cubby and I can see it when I pick you up.”
Riley: “I’ll be real quick, I promise, just wait. Don’t go”

She then takes a piece of paper, a marker and draws me this fancy piece of art:


Riley: “All done! Love you mom!” Blows me kisses and waves good-bye!

It is now hanging proudly in my office!

Oh to be able to freeze time and take snapshots or videos of it all so you never forget these precious moments! I guess that's what this blog is for right!?!

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

New Play Group

A lot of Riley's friends are leaving her day care and going to pre-schools closer to their house or ones with smaller classes.  It's quite sad as we love all the families that have been there with us from the beginning and poor Riley is losing all of her old friends, not that Riley has problems making new friends,  I can't keep up with the girl but most of them have all been together since the infant room so it's kind of sad.  On Friday on the way home Riley said "Mitchell going to a new school."  It was so sad! 

A bunch of them decided to get together for monthly play groups so we had our first play date on Saturday.  We all gathered at Joan's Pumpkin Patch (where we have been going for the past few years) for a few hours of fun.  The kids were so cute together, every time someone new came they ran to that kid and gave a huge hug.  The kids had a blast running all over the play area, riding the choo choo train, going on a hay ride and looking at the farm animals.  And when it was time to say good-bye, more hugs.  Riley even planted a HUGE kiss right on Jimmy's lips! 

Riley, Vikram, and Eli hamming it up

Riley and Mitchell are tackling the horseys!

Riley always gets a crazy look on her face when she has a steering wheel in her hands

The ride starting!
The gang, all riding by themselves!, the entire train was Riley's group of friends except for the first car

Riley LOVED the choo choo train!  James (in front of her), not so much!

Riley and Eli on the hay ride!

There's a donkey over there!

Posing with the "bah bah black sheeps" - Trevor, Mitchell, Danielle, Riley, Ryan, and Eli

Hugs for James

And hugs for Ryan