Monday the kids' school was closed for Columbus Day so I took the day off and pretended I was a stay-at-home mom. Let's just say I started the day off with extremely LOW expectations on how much fun the kids, ok let's just get it out there Riley, would allow us to have. She's continued her difficult streak and I was pretty convinced that by the time Marc got home from work that I would be in a drunken stupor just to be able to deal with her or I would be on the verge of killing her and had already warned Marc that I would be going upstairs alone when he got home and getting on the treadmill.
The morning started out rocky, we had a crazy busy weekend with t-ball Saturday morning, then a birthday party, and then another birthday party on Sunday coupled with Jacob's early wake ups (thanks to tooth #5, yes, he now has 5 teeth, coming through) so she was exhausted because she still semi-refuses to sleep. I promised her a trip to the park so after hacking me all morning about going, like she was ready to go at 8AM, we finally headed down around 10:30 after Jacob's nap. All morning I had been texting with her friend Joey's mom (not the little boy who tells her she beautiful, this is Joey A, her "best friend") and coordinating meeting up with them there. I loaded up lots of snacks, a picnic blanket and we headed down to the park. I made a quick stop on the way there at Peet's for a cup of coffee and told her that Joey and his brother Alex were going to be at the park. She was SO excited! She popped out of the stroller as soon as we hit the playground and rushed right over to Joey and Alex. We ended up spending like 2 1/2 - 3 hours out of the house at the park. It was such a good time, all of the kids got along great! We headed home close to 1 for a quick lunch and then nap time. Mr Jacob took a 2+ hour nap and little Miss "I don't want to sleep" even napped for over an hour! I got a good 2 hour break to get some cooking and cleaning done. After naps we played a little bit and then Riley asked to go to Target so she could "buy" something. She grabbed her purse and we headed out to Target because of course I needed some stuff despite the fact that we went Saturday night while Marc was at the Giant's game. Then home for baths and some dinner and more fun before wrapping up the day.
It really was an awesome day! It made me realize how awesome my kids are in their own ways and I feel so much more connected to Jacob again. I feel like I know Riley really well because she's up until like 8:30/9:00 after Jacob goes to bed at 7:00 but Jacob I feel like I only get maybe 2 hours a day with him during the week and that's with Riley's distractions. I feel like I got some great Jacob time this whole weekend and really got to learn his personality. As sweet as I always say he is, I think he's got a little devilish streak in him. He can be a little stinker, as in he's a biter and he knows what he's not allowed to do but he does it anyway with a devilish grin on his face. He also talks up a storm at home but in public he's much more reserved and apprehensive. He's saying "ba" for ball when he picks up a ball and he says "baba" when he's hungry. Day care has confirmed these "words" as well so it's not just us knowing what he wants. Monday really made me realize what I miss every day when I am at work. It made me very sad Tuesday morning to drop them at school, even Riley, who was little miss helper on Monday when it was just the three of us. I could seriously get used to being home with the kids, I had a ton more activities to do with the kids that we just didn't get to!
Here's some pictures of our trip to the park!
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| First touch of the sand |
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| I let him keep his binx so the sand did not go in his mouth! |
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| Riley and Joey building castles |
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| Alex getting involved |
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| The little guys swinging |
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| The big kids swinging |
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| Group shot! |